Stardolls On How To Beat bullying! - Stardoll

We asked our members to share their best ideas on how to fight bullying! Here are some of the most inspiring thoughts and ideas received in the Beatbullying contest...

2sikx     Great Britain

WE CAN BEAT BULLIYING BY BEING MORE ALERT , I MEAN I THINK STARDOLL SHOULD START THIS NEW THING LIKE EVERY WEEK THERES LIKE THE BEST MEDOLLS VITH TOP VOTES ( THE TOP FIVE ) . THEY SHOULD BE ANOUNCED EACHWEEK ON STARDOLLS ADVERTS AND SO WHEN PEOPLE ARE GETTING BULLIED THEY CAN FOWARD IT TO THE 5 TOP MEDOLLS AND THEY CAN FOWARD IT TO U ! THEN U CAN BAND THE BULLIES FOR 45 HOURS OR SOMFIN .AND THE TOP 5 MEDOLLS WITH TOP VOTES CAN GET 20 STARDOLLERS AND THAT WILL ALSO ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO TRY MORE HARDER SO THEY CAN ALSO BE IN CHARGE ! THEN THEY WILL LEARN THERE LESSON !! OR U CAN MAKE ADVERTS SAYIN STOP BULLIYING ON STARDOLL ! OR MAKE A MAIN STARDOLL ACOUNT OF THE PERSON WHO IS INCHARGE FOR EG LIKE CALLIE EXCEPT U CANT SEND HER A MESSAGE UNLESS UR HER FRIEND AND U CANT SEND HER A REQUEST BECAUSE SHES GOT TO MANY ALREADY SO THERES NO WAY IN CONTACT WITH HER FOR SOME PPL :( ANYWAY I HOPE U LIKE MY IDEAS :) XX

333aline      Belgium

Stardoll could make some active members agents, those agents could check out people who say that they are being bullyd, and if its true they could say it to some stardoll Staff. Then the bullyers recreive a warning message. If it happends again, they'll be deleted from stardoll. Thats a step closer to a bully-free world.

Anna_kilkis      Greece
i believe when someone is bulling stardoll should not let him stardoll for some days....for example for 3 days

BiebersWorld     New Zealand
I think bullying is a major issue in many schools across the world. It is becoming more and more serious and it is really tragic. I strongly believe that if people treat others how they want to be treated then this can stop. I think if you are being bullied then talk to someone you trust,confront the bully on how you are feeling. If you ARE the bully then ask yourself: Why am I doing this? How do I think the other person is feeling? I think we should take a stand to bullying and make it stop.

biffles4eva     Australia
One way to beat bullying is to not be shy of who you are. Thats who bullies pick people who dont have much self confidence. So just think of yourself big bold and beautiful no one can touch me! and then you shuld be good

Bubsieboo    Great Britain
Kids should be supported, and know that when the bully (ies) come, thinking that they are so tough and cool, that they have the whole world behind them, supporting them. They shouldn't be made to feel frightened in their most precious years of life, the ones that you are ment to enjoy the most, the ones that you make your friends and enjoy yourself.
We have to help prevent bullying all over the world, even if we have to do the most simplest things.
If we see a child being bullied on the playground, go over and help them, stick up for them, or tell a teacher/trusted adult. To know that you are helping someone is the best feeling in the entire world, and it doesn't cost anything. To be able to make that other person smile makes you smile too, and I think that just doing the most simplest things, like sticking up for a kid being bullied, or even telling a trusted adult, it will help make a child's life better, and together, if we all do that, we can help beat bullying, and make a difference. ^_^
(Entry by the user Bubsieboo on Stardoll :) )

Cassy91823     USA
It's beyond easy to stop bullying; all those bad thoughts you have don't need to come out in the way you type/talk. Online it's easy because you think no one will figure out it's you, but it's possible. It's so easy to be nice, especially on the internet. Even when you want someone to leave you alone, you can say it nicely and they can't see your face. It's a lot easier then trying to say it aloud. So spread it one at a time, tell someone you like their outfit or on stardoll that their medoll is attractive. On facebook, tell them the picture is flattering or don't say anything at all :) It's as easy as counting 1,2,3 :)

Just spread the love one post at a time

Cheril135      Canada
1. stand up 2. tell a friend 3. tell a adult! easy as 123!

Merimunki      Switzerland
Letting people share their stories and providing good advice for them, showing them they aren't alone and bullying doesn't have to go on!!

me_dancing    Germany
every school needs a club for people who are being bullied. there some teachers can make a confrotation with the bullies and if they don't stop send them to "Bully Beatdown"

Miley_Stewart96      Sweden
I've been bullied, It ain fun. But I fought back and then it all changed! im not bullied anymore and with help from my teacher and my friends i got through it all with a smile on my face! ( Not litterally but after, i smiled)
I Love that so many people wants to help others from getting bullied! I have signed up and walkrd around that park, having fun! sheers to Beatbullying!

oceangirl200      Ireland
i know this idea has probably come to the world already but if all schools were to have a special programe that has students from the actual school trained as counselers so that other students who are being bullied can come to these trained students and tell them that they are being bullied and by who they are being bullied by and these trained students can then go to a member of the staff who can then deal with the bullying in some way. This way the bully never knows who told about them bullying and cannot come back for revenge or something like that but like i said this idea has probably being used already!!!

SatinSuny      Nethelands
I think schools all around the world should have anonymous boxes where pupils can put in complaints so that it is not as scary to complain.I also think all schools should have an anti bully day and if you have not had a complain against you get to compete in fun competitions and get a certificate, but if you do have a complaint you are not allowed to compete and you will not get an award/certificate.

shortysofly       Albania
i think anywords that are bad that person should be banned for 24 hours!!!!!!!!!

superdada    Serbia
Let's beat bullying. Let's trie to give peace a chance. Let's hope that one day everyone will be in harmony no wars no conflicts. Just us humans.
Stardoll has given it's best to reduce bullying by adding a 'block' or 'report' button. But with all of the almost 80000 members stardoll can't contol everyne. So please try being nice for once. Leave nice comments in the guest book, rate the way you think is wrigth you don't have to run around, metaphorically, saying "I voted her 1/5 because I think she'sugly" . What will that get you? Nothing. Don't listen to me if you don't want to. Just try or as nike would say JUST DO IT. TOGHETER WE CAN BEAT BULLYING!

mkt3          USA
at my school in california, we have a monthly campaign about how bullying can impact others and ourselves. we also have a ritual that we have been doing for six or seven years, where we totally come out about our problems, and other's, too. so what if on stardoll, we have a blog about it? it could be anonymous, so no one knew who we were, but it would give us a chance to come clean internationally.

mOp-x    Netherlands
I think that if someone is bullying you, you have to report yhay person.
also ignore the people who are irritating you.
on that way, you have more fun on SD

Zaroni101    USA
If you are on a website like Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, etc and you are being bullied you should delete your account or you can change your privacy settings. You could also block the person or take them off your friend list (if they are on your friend list). Though, whenever you get angry and want revenge, don't start bullying the same person (who bullied you) or bullying other people. You should try going on a blog to vent out some feelings without mentioning names, schools, location, etc. Stay safe. Be happy.

taniasuperstar4          India
I think that if ANY one is getting bullied they should take action against it either go to a councular or maybe tell ur techer or principle or parent s and if u can be bold and fight back.

ladytigresa438           Portugal
think to combat bullying and percise beings above all honest.
If you suffer from bullying and not contatres anything to your parents or friends can not be helped and you will suffer in silence.

Ms.collegegirl1          Mexico
i think by stop bullying we can join more activeites and have a talk with our enimes