Flawless. Can you say that any person in this world is flawless? Any person that doesn't have a thing or 2 in past that bothers them?

Yeah, we all made mistakes. But like people say, you can never move on if you are held down by past. You can never advance in life if you keep looking back.

That doesn't have to mean you can get over things easily. Here is what you can try doing:

Revisit the memory in your mind. Yeah, it may not be so pleasant, but still do it. What happened. Why. And most importantly, how should you have reacted.

Recreate the whole scenario, and think of what could you have done differently. What you could have said, done, how you could have reacted. What might have been the consequences, and would it have changed anything. Do it until you are completely satisfied with the scenario you created in your head.

I know you won't be able to change the past, but it will bring you peace. Wisdom too, in case you or your friend encounter a same or similar situation.

Just remember, in your life journey, you are bound to make a lot more mistakes. It can only depend of you will they break you or make you stronger.

 

~ Milena